How Stress Manifests on Your Skin (And What to Do About It)
The holidays are approaching, and while this season brings joy, it also brings stress—and your skin feels it. In the latest episode of the Facially Conscious Podcast, host Trina Renea and skincare scientist Rebecca Gadberry dive deep into the science of stressed skin and share practical solutions for both professionals and consumers navigating this challenging time of year.
When Your Favorite Products Stop Working
Have you ever noticed that a product you've used for months suddenly causes redness, stinging, or simply stops working? According to Rebecca, this is one of the most clear signs of what experts call "emo-stressed skin"—emotionally stressed skin. "That's a real sign that your skin is responding to stress," she explains in the Stressed Skin episode.
The culprits? Stress hormones like cortisol and norepinephrine that damage your skin barrier, boost blood flow, cause redness, and can even lead to puffiness. While social media talks about "cortisol face," Rebecca explains that true cortisol face is linked to adrenal gland diseases. For most people, stress shows up as increased sensitivity, puffiness, redness, and breakouts.
The Brain-Skin Connection: Understanding the HPA Axis
The link between your mind and your skin isn't just figurative—it's biological. Rebecca explains the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis, the pathway through which stress in your brain directly affects your skin.
When stress activates the HPA axis, cortisol and norepinephrine flood your system. This triggers a series of effects: increased circulation that causes redness, or alternatively, blood flow diverted away from your skin to internal organs, leaving you pale and cold. Collagen breaks down more quickly, and your protective skin barrier develops holes, leading to dryness, flaking, and sensitivity.
Trina observes that in her practice, stressed clients can develop acne and become more sensitive to treatments they previously tolerated well. "When I give facials and people are stressed, I often see them definitely with more sensitivity to things they were never sensitive to before," she observes.
Why Stress Lingers on Your Skin
What’s even more concerning is that these effects can last long after the stressful event has ended. Recent research shows that keratinocytes (cells in your outer skin layer) and fibroblasts (cells in your dermis) actually produce their own cortisol and norepinephrine. This means your skin cells keep generating stress hormones "for days or weeks or months or years after a stressful event," Rebecca explains.
This discovery transforms our approach to treating stressed skin. Waiting for the stressful period to pass is not enough—active intervention is necessary.
The Oxytocin Solution
Here's the good news: there's a powerful antidote to stress hormones, and it's called oxytocin. Known as the "tend-and-befriend hormone" or "love hormone," oxytocin directly counteracts the harmful effects of cortisol and norepinephrine.
You can stimulate oxytocin production through:
- Professional facials with massage (benefiting both client and esthetician)
- Hugging for longer than 20 seconds
- Petting animals (they benefit too!)
- Self-touch: placing your open palm over your heart for 30 seconds
- Cold therapy: applying a cold cloth to your face
Rebecca emphasizes that because your body can't distinguish between someone else's touch and self-touch, you can trigger oxytocin's healing effects yourself.
Powerful Ingredients for Stressed Skin
When formulating or selecting products for stressed skin, look for these science-backed ingredients:
Cortisol Blockers:
- Helichrysum italicum: A Mediterranean plant extract that lowers cortisol by 76% in just 30 minutes, making it ideal for acne and rosacea-prone stressed skin
- Tephrosia purpurea seed extract: Targets cortisol produced directly by skin cells
Antioxidants:
Stress depletes your body's antioxidant reserves. Replenish them with stable forms of vitamin E, vitamin A, and astaxanthin (derived from algae).
Immune System Support:
Beta-glucans from mushrooms, oats, or baker's yeast help restore immune function that becomes compromised under stress.
Microbiome Balancers:
Look for prebiotics (such as inulin and fructo-oligosaccharides) and probiotics (such as lactobacillus or bifidus) that support beneficial skin bacteria.
Barrier Rebuilders:
Ceramides, omega fatty acids, squalane, phytosterols, cholesterol, and niacinamide all help repair the barrier stress damage.
Rebecca specifically advocates for niacinamide as a "wonder ingredient" that repairs barriers, lightens skin, and supports immune function—make sure you're using a pure form without niacin to avoid reactions.
And don't overlook aloe vera. "It's an amazing ingredient," Rebecca notes, explaining that it provides the molecules skin needs for barrier repair, calms inflamed nerves, and balances the microbiome. Look for it in the first or second ingredient position, or use pure aloe gel formulated for topical use.
Protocol Adjustments for Estheticians
When treating stressed clients, Trina and Rebecca recommend stripping treatments down to basics:
- Use gentle cleansers without aggressive oil-stripping
- Avoid brisk tapotement massage; instead, use long, slow strokes with constant skin contact
- Maintain contact throughout the facial—lifting hands creates small cortisol spikes
- Focus on calming masks and barrier repair
- Incorporate arm, shoulder, and vagus nerve massage
- Keep product selection minimal: cleanser, multi-targeted serum, barrier repair moisturizer
"Stressed skin isn't a flaw. It's a signal that your client needs more care," Trina reminds estheticians. The goal is to be the person clients turn to for relief, not judgment.
At-Home Stress-Relief Techniques
Beyond professional treatments, Trina shares a powerful breathing technique inspired by—of all things—dogs. When dogs settle down to rest, they take a breath, then take another breath on top of it before exhaling. Try it: breathe in through your nose, breathe in again, then exhale through your nose. This activates the vagus nerve, promoting immediate relaxation.
Incorporate this breathing into your skincare routine by gently applying products with slow, deliberate strokes. Focus on textures. Turn it into a soothing ritual. Use mineral-based sunscreens to avoid irritation, and keep fragrances to a minimum unless a particular scent helps you relax.
Reframing Self-Care
The most important message from this episode is reframing how we see professional skincare treatments. "We tend to think of them as pampering," Rebecca notes, "but it is wellness. It's helping you to maintain yourself so you can go back to your life."
During the holidays and other stressful periods, a facial isn't a luxury—it's self-care and important maintenance so you can be present for the ones you love. Trina confirms this from her practice: "My clients always leave saying, 'Oh, my God, thank you so much.' It's more than just a facial...it's wellness."
As we head into the holiday season, remember that your skin is sending signals. Listen to them. Whether through professional treatments, targeted ingredients, or simple breathing exercises, you have the tools to support your skin through stress.
For more insights on navigating the complex world of skincare, listen to the full Stressed Skin episode and explore the Facially Conscious Podcast archives.
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